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No Rules For Heartaches

Many of us have dealt with heartaches. It does not matter if you are in a relationship, ended a relationship, wishing to be in a relationship or envying a relationship. A heartache is a heartache. No one can tell you not to feel the pain because the person is not worth it. Others cannot stop your heart for the simple reason that the other person is not yours to begin with. Finally, no one can dictate you how to feel simply because they have been there. If you are hurt, you are hurt and you owe it to yourself to acknowledge the pain. So what, if you cry your heart out? So what, if you are miserable? The good thing about acknowledging it and reacting to it honestly is that you will eventually realize how to deal with the pain your way. You decide when and how to move on. You will decide when and how to mend your heart and at what pace. You don't want to go on pretending that it does not bother or affect you to please others. You don't want to lie to yourself either. Eventua...